COCKTAILS UNDER THE STARS
The Junior Committee of the Partnership for the Homeless hosts benefit; open bar, hors d'oeuvres & music; Embassy Ballrooms, Inn on W. 57th, 440 W. 57th St. (betw. 9th & 10th Aves.), 212-645-3444 ext.121; 6:30-10:30, $35, $30 adv.
GRAFFITI AT AUCTION
Guernsey's graffiti & urban art auction feat. more than 350 works by 75 artists; Puck Bldg., 295 Lafayette St. (Houston St.), 212-794-2280 or www.guernseys.com; call for info [repeats Thurs.].
KEITH HARING: THE SVA YEARS (1978-1980)
Continuing exhibit at School of Visual Arts, Visual Arts Museum, 209 E. 23rd St. (betw. 2nd & 3rd Aves.), 212-592-2144; call for hours, free [through 6/17].
IMPROVING THE CHEMOTHERAPY EXPERIENCE
New York Yankees announcer & cancer survivor, Suzyn Waldman, shares her story at Cancer Care, 275 7th Ave., 22nd fl. (betw. 26th & 27th Sts.), 212-302-2400; 5:30-8, free.
TAKING YOUR MEDICATIONS
Free seminar presented by Dr. Michael Mullen; Stuyvesant Polyclinic, 137 2nd Ave. (betw. 8th & 9th Sts.), rsvp 212-674-0267; 6:30.
Books & recordings for sale at St. Agnes Branch library, 444 Amsterdam Ave. (81st St.), 212-877-4380; 11-5, free [continues Fri. 12-5 & Sat. 11-4].
BARBARA SCHWARTZ: TILE PAINTINGS
New paintings on exhibit at Andre Zarre Gallery, 515 W. 20th St., 6th fl. (betw. 10th & 11th Aves.), 212-255-0202; 5-7, free [through 6/30].
Dinner & socializing for bisexuals & their supporters; NY Spaces, 131 W. 72nd St. (betw. B'way & Columbus Ave.), 212-714-7714; 6-8, call for info.
San Francisco photographer, Terri Loewenthal's exhibit of more than 30 "doppleganger" Polaroids, often of well-known musicians who appear to have a mirroring effect from utilizing double exposure technique, like Simon Ratcliffe (of Basement Jaxx) appears to be lighting his own cigarette; DDC Lab, 180 Orchard St. (betw. Houston & Stanton Sts.), 212-741-9260, call for hours, free [through 6/25].
NEW STRAWBERRY MOON DRUMMING CIRCLE
Urban shaman Donna Henes leads ceremony at Mama Donna's Tea Garden & Healing Haven, 279 Sterling Pl. (Vanderbilt Ave.), Bklyn., 718-857-2247, res. req.; 7:30, $15.
SINGLES UPBEAT SOIREE
Introductions, buffet, conversation & drinks; Penthouse at Sutton Pl. Suites, 300 E. 58th St. (betw. 1st & 2nd Aves.), 718-875-3878 res. req.; 9:30, $38 [repeats Sat.].
THE ARCHIVE OF CONTEMPORARY MUSIC SALE
Nation's largest popular music collection hosts record sale feat. new & used CDs, LPs & tapes, posters, books; ARChive, 54 White St. (betw. Church St. & B'way), 212-226-6967; 11-6, free [continues Sun. 12-5].
FLYING SOLO: OPPORTUNITIES FOR SINGLES
Meet other singles while previewing 1900: Art at the Crossroads exhibit at the Guggenheim, 92nd St. Y sponsors; 212-996-1100 for info; 7:30, $25.
musical memories recordfest
Hundreds of LPs, 45s, 78s, v-discs, books, posters & photos; 155 W. 72nd St., 4th fl. (B'way), 212-579-0689; 10-2, free.
NYC RECORD & CD COLLECTORS EXPO
New, used & collectable CDs, LPs & tapes; Embassy Ballrooms, Holiday Inn, 440 W. 57th St. (betw. 9th & 10th Aves.), 973-773-6067; 10-4, $6.
RARE, USED & OUT-OF-PRINT BOOK FAIR
Tip Top Shoe Bldg., 155 W. 72nd St., 4th fl. (B'way), 212-579-0689; 10-2, free.
UNION SQUARE: A WINE EMPORIUM
Wine tasting: Marques de Caceres; Union Sq. Wine & Spirits, 33 Union Sq. W. (betw. 16th & 17th Sts.), 212-675-8100; 2-5, free.
WHERE MY DOLLS AT?
Month-long live window display feat. spoken word, live music, performance art & improv; Patch, 155 Rivington St. (betw. Suffolk & Clinton Sts.), 212-533-8848; 1-7, free [repeats Sun., through 6/25].
NYC CAMERA SHOW & SALE
New & used cameras, darkroom equipment & accessories; Embassy Ballrooms, Holiday Inn, 440 W. 57th St. (betw. 9th & 10th Aves.), 973-472-5460; 10-3, $6.
Bi-monthly support group for sons & daughters of parents with Alzheimer's disease; 212-744-5022 ext. 1205 for location & registration info; 7:30, free.
FRIENDLY FRENCH CONVERSATION GROUP
Moderate & advanced French speakers gather to read & chat every Monday night at The Magic Carpet, 54 Carmine St. (betw. Bedford & Bleecker Sts.), 914-776-7723; 7-9, free.
SUMMER RESTAURANT WEEK 2000
Various restaurants throughout the city offer $20 prix fixe three-course lunches through June 23 to raise money for hunger relieve charities, visit www.nycvisit.com for complete list of participating restaurants.